How many of us are in a surface conversation relationship?

Just had a deep conversation with a friend and this came up... Talk about eye opening!!! You can just be thankful for the experiences that allow you to see your truth! 

Surface conversation is just general talk but you never truly get to know the person or vice versa. A lot of us may entertain it and never seek to engage in something deeper in fear of what the person might reveal or people running in the other direction once they "see" the real you.

What are you holding onto and calling Love so you are not left alone to look at yourself?